Look Good Feel Better Jan26 2011 @ Chemo Clinic

Mom was really cranky for the whole day. I didn't really talk to her bcoz of her attitudes. I don't wanna get into trouble. I really didn't want to be yelled at.

Anyway, Kenneth came to pick us up and drove us to the Hospital. Mom had a special session. I really didn't expect much, but just wanted to go there and learned the make up session.

At first hour, the volunteers were teaching all cancer patients on how to put Natural make up on. Patients' skins are very sensitive, so they were trying to explain to the patients how to use the natural based make up materials to make them look good.

After the first session, the hair lady came to mom and asked if she could be the model. Mom claimed herself doesn't know ENGLISH, but she said YES faster than I explained to her.... humm....

Anyway, the whole hair session last an hour, she enjoyed it very much.  why? hahahaa! Let's look at some pictures (Sorry, I forgot to bring my camera. I didn't expect that the session turned out in this way....)

 At first, Hair lady should the patients how to choose the right wig, then how to put it on. Mom didn't know which one she should picked, so this chestnut colour hair wig was picked by me. (kekekekekeke! >=D)

After she put the wig on Mom, actually did some volume. I thought she was going to hurt mom, but Mom said she was really rough on the wig, but not her. That was good! 

Then she was saying how to put the wig on the right position, see Mom was so photogentic... never eyes off my camera... haha!

 After Full wig, she was explaining there were some people liked to wear hat instead of wig. But without the hair, hat looked dull, so partial hair wig should be applied on this situation. Mom didn't like that partial hair. She said it looked like "河童"...  OH well... I have no comment, bcoz that wig with the hat, it actually looked good.

After some Q/A, she was teaching the patients on how to put on the wrap. Mom didn't like it at all, Not the Wrap part, Mom said she wrapped it too tight, which made her BIG head not comfortable.... humm.....

Then before it finished, Mom was using her English to ask the hair lady if she could tried on the BLONDE hair, the hair lady looked at her gasped... and asked her, "are you sure?" , then Mom said, "yeah, I want to..."

Then she helped Mom to put it on ... a lot of people said she looked so good.... All of a sudden, Mom shouted out, "I look like Lady GaGa..." I was like.... humm... .

"Anyone can give this lady Gaga a ride home?"

hahahahaaha! She always makes everyone SMILE! Mom, you are the best! 

Honestly, She did looked Good on this wig. Even it is not a very clear picture, you could still how Mom enjoyed being Model with this wig....

This is the highlight of tonight!

Mom and I were trying to comfort other pair of mother and daughter. I knew Mom felt good about it....

Afterall, Mom was so happy and went home with a BIG SMILE, non stop talking about how she became Model and checking her gift from the session. A $300 make up/ skin care basket.

Mom didn't say anything related to God, but the way she showed the patience and care to others, I believed it was actually showed what God taught us, right?

Yhaaahaah! Mom you are still the best!

(Thank you Elsie by letting us know about this "Look Good feel better")

Preparing 4th Chemo

Mom stays home most of her time... well... actually .... very much her old time... That I didn't really like... Always lock herself in her room, watching TV... ISOLATED herself from the world.

I always think this action is not healthy since she started addict into Korean TVs. I didn't like it, I don't like it, and I will not like it.

Now she has her excuses.... Very boring life... got up, turn on TV, have breakfast, watching TV... till tired... go to bed... hungry... eat, watch TV...

Whenever I bring this concern.... I will get yelled at. So, whoever read this, please don't mention it to her as she will go NUT of it. I would say... she reaches the point is OUT OF CONTROL.

I pray to Lord that after this process... She will realize that more exercises and social more are very important.

You may not know... my mom is not a very social person. Dad and she don't have MANY friends, so we (king, ka ho and I) don't have many Uncles/ Aunties since little. Just by their siblings .... are enough to keep us busy.

God bless King, Ka Ho and me, we are quite out-going. We learn how to deal with people on ourselves. HE lead us to open ourselves to the world. When I look at our parents, they don't have many friends, so most of their time will be at home. or just home social gathering.

Anyway, Good to let me "blah" about it. I was not happy this morning when Mom made a small incident BIG! Of coz, I didn't get mad at her, but I couldn't stand the way she thinks things now.... Geerrrrrrr!!!

Since most of you didn't see my mom for long time... here you go...

 Even mom doesn't like to social... She always has all kinds of creative ideas. This is what she bought for Ka Ho to snowboard....

Humm... this is how my Mom treats me... always bought me all kinds of RABBIT figure... this hat is for me to snowboard... or regular use...  humm...... I am already 30s something... I think it will be a bit not appropreiate... haahha!! Let see....

(taking these pictures when Mom saw the snow falling down... wanna prove to grandma that how Snow looks like...) Too bad.. .I am not a good photographer. =) Can't really see the snow...

病歪女

this is another brand new day. Good that Mom is still doing great!

Thank you for reading this blog as much as you can. This is my motivation to get all  the stories from mom daily.

Seriously, beside losing her hair, and darken some of her skin. She is even healthier than me. I think I may need to change the blog name to be 佢係佢阿女個媽﹐一個抗緊癌同埋病歪既阿媽...

大鑊!!!

Thank you... THank you... Thank you... (*sigh* how many times should I everyday?)

Dear God,

I praised to you for giving us enough $$ and energy to places that we wanted to go.
Mom was happy yesterday. You gave her enough energy to for lunch and shopping at Michael's. Thank you. I was doing the roles of "DRIVER" and "ATM machine". Good that you gave me the opportunities to be with Mom. She was Happy. As long as she was happy. I was Happy!!! Thank you for giving me the SMILE everyday. Heavenly father, I love you... I am so proud to know you for my LIFE. You gave me a lot of blessing to my family and me. THank you.

~Amen.


Mom called me while I was on the road yesterday, she said she wanted to go out. I was looking at the weather and it was FREEZING. I asked Mom, "Are you sure? It is freakkkking cold out...."

Mom was giving me a big "CHEH" and said "Cheh! I will put more clothings....!! Go lar... Go lar...!!"

Anyway, I would like to say THANKS to Aunties who keeps my Mom in their prayers. who keeps cooking great FOOD to her, who takes care of mom's spare time (by talking to her on the phone) haahaahaa! Mom needs the care... sometimes she doesn't really want to talk (I believe it is more personality things than real energy), please don't mind her. she is as weird as I am. =)

You love me,
You love my mom! THank you!

Oh oh oh... I should say... You love my mom, you should love me... no matter how mean I am and how bad temper I am... =)

(This is a months old photo, don't worry... right now... she wouldn't eat this .... and she wouldn't dress like that. I believe that was last summer... )

Great... Greattt.... GREATTTTT!!! (I mean Mom! not me! =))

by looking at Mom's smile. You know how brave she is....

She is actually a very very positive person (NOW). I know some of you are very concern about how she is doing right now.

She is doing just FINE! I mean very fine. If you want to talk to her on the phone (not too long one) you are very welcomed to call her.

Beside she needs to go to washroom often... she is just FINE! oh... get tired sometime.. nothing much...

I really can't think of what I can write on here. Plus I am busy with my stuffs.

Please keep comment on here and I am sure she wants to read it.

PS: She can't go out this week. Maybe once or twice next week... but for sure NOT THIS WEEK. she is very good this week... I am relief...

=) Thank you for all your supports!!!!

3rd Chemo (11011)

Yesterday was Mom's 3rd Chemo, the last injection for the RED stuffs.

She prepared everything, physically, and emotionally. By looking at her, still positive look on her face. That's count! 

Wanna upload more pictures, but it seems like I can't. It keeps crushing on me. Anyway, she is going ok.

Thank you Avana for planning ahead of time to help me on Mom's Food. (I am down again. Sick!); of coz thank you for the apple soup too!

Thank you Cindy for preparing the bread and the soup for mom. I am sure she will like it.

Thank you everyone who stays away from calling my home. So far, I only heard mom received Grand Auntie 3, 8,9,11. (If you are in Wong's family, you will know that those # for)

Thank you Kenneth for cleaning the house for me again (and again.. and again.... seriously, I am very appreciated of it!)

Thank you Ka Ho for coming home a bit early and keep it down while he was doing his DJ things at night. Mom had a good sleep.

Thank you all brothers/sisters from church. I know a lot of people were praying for her. Those continue prayers really powerful.

Thank you my LORD for having all these Blessings... really can't express in words.

I will try to put more pictures on later on... 

(PS: for those were reading my joke. Please don't mind me mentioning about poo poo... it was true) 

Hope this will bring you a SMILE!

Before I write anything about Mom's 3rd Chemo, let me give you a smile first:
(以下既內容含不雅字句﹐請自行選擇睇落去與否)





今日我聽到一個我覺得幾好笑既電話對話。

時﹕2011/1/10
地: 一間有兩頭老狗既屋


開始時我偶爾聽到一個電話既對答﹕

媽﹕加拿大D 雪點架﹖
女﹕D雪咪好犀利咯﹗
媽﹕D雪一條條甘咪真係好勁﹖
女﹕媽﹐邊個話你知D雪係一條條架﹖屎咩﹖一條條。。。
媽﹕下﹖唔係一條條咩﹖甘係點架﹖
女﹕D 雪係一粒粒同一舊舊架﹐阿媽。
媽﹕甘同一條條又乜分別﹖咪又係屎甘﹖一粒粒。。。一舊舊。。。

我聽到呢道已經忍唔住大笑出來﹗﹗﹗﹗

Flu Shot today

Mom has been worried about getting sick during Chemo process, so she tries NOT go to the crowd, NOT close to those who is sick.

When the FLU period with people don't go for flu shot... Mom is taking the risk even staying home. Ka Ho and I have been contacted those flu people, and may end up we bring the virus home. Now, I can see why Kenneth keeps the house as clean as he can. Try to kill those "Bring Home Virus" ... ... ...

Dr. Tepperman suggests Mom to take the FLU SHOT, we are heading to get it done today. I am sure Mom has a bit worried, but hey... afterall, it is part of the process as well.

I always Thank God. I praise to HIM bcoz HIS love is really with us at ALL TIME, never stop. I always hear how Chemo patients react this, react that... but to my MOM. She is just SUPER! She feels tired....SOMETIMES but you know what... she walks around in home other than "REST"... Those ENERGY ... really effects Ka Ho and me. We are hardly keeping up with her.

I do have some concerns as I am thinking to get a part time job at least... but Mom actually not that STABLE daily. It is hard to get a job that I stay with mom 24-7 for one week, then 1/2 in the following week, and FULL week the one after... once again, praise to Lord that I can have the chance to work on the CCAMMA AGM, it let me pick my own time to work on the stuffs.

Without the blessing, we can't have such a wonderful planning. Good Plan, Lord! Thank you. 

HD is too HIGH... can't read it...

Happy New Year!!!

Not that I am lazy and not coming up.
Not that I don't want to update my mom's status.

1. Kenneth bought me a new camera which is HD version, My computer doesn't read the HD files. However, I have no idea how to upload the latest pictures on.
2. Mom is doing so good in order to prepare up coming Chemo. Just nothing really I can mention in the last 3-4 days.

Most of the time, Mom will knit the new scarfs for us. As she was so happy that she bought some BIG SALE wool for us... (Thanks MICHAELS, $8.99 wool and on sale only $4.99, Mom was so happy ... and couldn't stop knitting)

Mom eats as much as she could, but she started eating SWEET again.... I am trying to stop her... end up ... we both got into FIGHT! *sigh* ... Just don't want her to die that soon ... so ... try to keep her alive .... longer.... Hope it is not wrong decision... But still she doesn't think the SWEET harm her that much... $#$W$(&%($#&(%$(&!!!

Anyway... it is not worth it... better not going too FAR .... I don't want to yell at and getting yelled at... Well... in a positive way... at least... she has the ENERGY to get mad! hahaahaah! Why not...?

Ok ... I think there are too many people around me getting sick... I am getting not feeling well... better drink more water... and more water... and rest...

Hope I will be able to get the pictures up soon.

SMILE, EVERYONE! God bless to you all!