She is very sensitive

Dear all,

I am very glad some of you talked to my Mom over the phone. When she is well, she talks once in a while. When she is not well, I turn off the phone ring and she can rest.

When you have some people's stories/ experiences that you want to tell her, PLEASE, PLEASE let me know before you tell her. Whatever you tell her and she will apply into her own case. She is very unstable mindset now. PLEASE, if you have any stories regarding how people reacted on the Chemo, or stuffs, Please NOT to tell her how other people react. She will feel how that people reacting to Chemo as well. It is so NOT GOOD now...

As she found out some people reacted with CHEMO sick after 7-10days, then she counted her schedule and reacted the same things (I am not sure if she reminds herself in her mind or she thinks she should have that)

If you get a chance to talk to her, Please tell her the BRIGHT side, POSITIVE things... PLEASE...

this will make my life easier.

Thank you very much.

It is ok to tell her how the regular side effects. For example, You can tell her how fish is a good food resource for her, how fresh fist it should be, and how the nutritutions for her. But please not to tell her that you will probably "CHOKE the fish bones". For her mindset now, she realy thinks she is going to choke....